So, Rob felt compelled to leave me two messages last night at 2:30am, calling me a (excuse my language) whore. I'm serious. I really don't know what to do. I know that it really shouldn't matter what he does anymore, and I can't let him hurt me. It's just unbelievable to me. I mean, I thought I knew this person. I can't believe how wrong I was about him. It's kinda scary, really. It makes me seriously question my judgment.
And if I was so wrong before, how can I know that what I have now is right?
4 comments:
What matters now is that you are away from him. Don't worry about what he said, it probably will get worse.
To be fair, sometimes people say things they would regret when they are angry/drunk. At 2:30am, he probably was either or both.
You would tend to question your judgement in relationship when you break up. It's one of the reasons why you shouldn't be involved in another (even a potential) one right away.
However, I am sure your judgement is fine. It may need some adjustments in certain areas, but overall, it's fine
Rob is a special breed. He's also hurt and angry and not making solid judgements right now. That is in no way a reflection of your sense of judgement.
If you go through life questioning every decisions, always thinking "what if", you'll miss it all.
He's being an ass to you right now. Hopefully someday he can see how wrong his actions are and he'll come to his senses. It's really hard to be the dumpee - trust me...I am having a very hard time with it right now and I understand how one can make poor judgements. Not that I condone them, but your mind wanders and you start to get desperate...I have had to sit on my hands, hid my cell phone - do absolutely anything to avoid being an asshole.
I am happy for you - don't let him get in the way of your happiness.
Its all frame of reference right? Sometimes things look a lot different when we step back and re-evaluate. Also our frame is blured by past experience and new information can drastically alter how we looked at things to start with.
But I regress.
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